August 04, 2018 |
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Time was when palming off a khota sikka (disfigured coin) at the local provisional store was considered a big fraud. Not many dared to indulge in such tricks and the few who succeeded in befooling the kirana store guy bragged about their feat as though they had pulled off the great gold heist .Those were the days when a teacher reprimanded a student, the latter wouldn’t tell it to his father lest he gets an earful at home too. When a quarrel breaks out nobody would badmouth each other—forget taking out weapons. “I will complain to your father ...” was enough to make the warring guy come to his senses.
No, I am not referring to tales from a moral book. Such things really happened and people in their 60s will vouchsafe for it. Of course these things sound unbelievable today. Reason: We have moved far away from the good old days.Not that everyone was a saint in the days bygone. There were black sheep too as is the case in every age. But even they were shareef badmash, to use the euphemism, and would go this far and no further. None dared cross the Lakshman Rekha.
Today the moral degradation has crept through the communities. No one is safe, only the degree of erosion differs. The other day when I was bemoaning the state of affairs, my friend remarked, “Spare the rod and spoil the child.” His words kept rankling in my mind. Have we really spoiled the children blinded by their love? Not chiding them when they erred, looking the other way when they disrespected values and customs. Questioning traditions is not moral degradation, some argue. Perhaps it is the young people’s way of judging what is acceptable to them. But can anyone deny what a stitch in time can do.
Where have things gone wrong? We have a rich ethos and tradition, such wonderful religious teachings. Yet there is moral degradation. People cheat each other with impunity. In the mad rush to get rich quick, religion and ethics are given a short shrift. Is the present education system with its stress on garnering material benefits to blame? Have the parents failed in bringing up children the right way? Or is the entertainment industry responsible for the moral decadence?
Such is the public apathy that recently when three bike-borne friends met with an accident in Rajasthan, onlookers were seen clicking selfies and making videos but none came forward to help the injured. That’s the painful reality. The ethical glue that holds the society is coming unstuck.
J.S.Ifthekhar,
Hyderabad based journalist.
Article published in The New Indian Express
Dated August 4,2018
You are right.There is mad, unethical and dishonest rush to get rich, unfortunately even among mlddle class people. When we seniors recall our old days youngsters look at us sarcastically.
ReplyDeleteNot only wealth acquisition,people do not have minimum courtesy and empathy.
I was shocked when our Watchman has refused to serve a glass of water when a street vendor has asked for it.He has kept staring when s resident has fetched and given to her.Where we are
I heading?
I agree with you.
DeleteSir,
ReplyDeleteI liked your article (The mad rush... ) very much. I look forward to reading more such ones from you,.
I'm glad you liked it.
DeleteHello Sir,
ReplyDeleteI read your mindspace article today and it made perfect sense. It is indeed regrettable that those days of the past which you mention are sadly forgotten by one and all.
Sometimes when I remember my childhood days, I feel a sense of loss that those days of innocence cannot be enjoyed by my own children to whom I have to give a hundred instructions to not venture alone, not talk to anyone including our own building people and security staff and so many such things out of fear for their safety.
Human conscience seems to be on a downward spiral..I only pray that like all things, this too will one day reverse direction and humanity will arise out of this mental muck.
Though to be frank, I cannot see it happening in the near future..
Perhaps, schools should take it upon themselves to drill it into the children that they need to be tolerant and kind to others, to be helpful and above all, to be very honest.
Thank God, our children are still as lovable as we have known children to be...God save us should our human DNA be altered as to have children born any less pure and innocent than they are !! That is a very scary thought, indeed.
Sir, I have read your articles previously too and even though I am not able to recollect specifically , all of them were really good.
Have a nice day ahead !
DeleteThanks a lot.